I bring my sister to SK and pick her up - I've gotten to know two parents and even though I'm clearly not her mother, I feel like her parent. We've arranged play dates and I talk like a ...mother lol. I can't even explain it. Also I've realized that a lot of girls around my age think being pregnant is fun and having a little baby to take care of would be a plus in their life. News flash! It's not. Being pregnant ruins your body and raising a child at a young age is VERY HARD - you need money to buy diapers, food, clothing, toys, provide shelter, etc., for your child for at least 18 years! It also takes away from your social life - no clubbing, partying, dating ....unless you can find a good baby sitter but what are the odds of that happening? My friends think that whenever I find someone to babysit I'll be available to party. Nooooo. I'll be lucky to find a babysitter and as soon as I do I'll be getting my ass a job. So between working and taking care of my sister and daughter, I won't want to party. On my days off I'll want to sleep. I'm aware of all these "disadvantages" to being a mom at such a young age but I accept it! And I'm excited to bring my beautiful baby girl into this world, regardless of the obstacles I'll have to face.
122 more days!! My belly button has almost popped right out!! WEIRD
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